Woman Doing Hand Heart Sign

Self-Love in a Sporty Space

Let me start this blog post by saying that I’m infinitely glad that social media did not exist when I was an athlete.  Gosh, the perfectionist and people-pleaser in me would have been locked in on alllll the likes. Instead, I just focused on dissecting every tiny bit of feedback that was ever offered in…

Two Teenage Girls Laying on Grass and Playing Telephone Call Using Paper Cups on String

GIRL TALK – The Three Cs of Self-Talk in Female Sports and Beyond

In my work as a mental performance coach, I like to ask tween female athletes this simple question: “Whose voice do you hear the most?” Answers vary, sometimes it’s “Mom,” sometimes it’s “Coach,” or “My little sister…” sometimes their response goes deep… “God….duh!” Love it, great answers. But, I typically will respond with, “What about…

Growth Mindset in Sports: The Space Between Great and Terrible

Growth Mindset in Sports: The Space Between Great and Terrible

I read the following line in Anthony Klarica’s book, “The Performance Mindset: 7 Steps to Success in Sport and Life” and it stopped me in my tracks:  There is a lot of space between great and terrible. Oooph, how freeing was that for you to read?  I’m hoping your shoulders dropped a good half-inch as…